Friday, November 15, 2024

Mohs - my recovery...

Today is nine days post mohs surgery, and I am happy to say that I am doing very well.  The worst part was the afternoon of the surgery - which I'll touch on below.  But beyond that, things have progressed nicely and relatively quickly. Again, largely for my record and a bit of catharsis, and possibly for the benefit of someone reading this some day, I'm going to share the progression of healing from a flap procedure on my nostril.  Up to today, anyway.  

As much as I want to discuss (and vent) about the situation of pain management and how woefully inadequate I have found it to be after three surgeries (now four) since the autumn of 2022, I'm going to just jump to the punchline and tell you I was in tremendous pain once the Lidocaine wore off - before I even got home from the surgery on Wednesday.  


Finding myself in serious pain, the instructions to "call on Friday if tylenol or ibuprofen are not working" were not only completely and obviously inadequate, they didn't even make sense.  Was I suppose to suffer until Friday?  The worst of the pain would be gone by then - surely!  If I was in this kind of pain come Friday, I'm thinking there is a serious problem that should have been dealt with earlier.

It took me a while, but I finally screwed up the courage to get over my angst about the doctor perhaps thinking I was a weakling, or worse, an addict, and called the office explaining that tylenol wasn't touching the pain, and the instructions to call on Friday if I was still in pain were inadequate.

A kind sounding nurse immediately responded that of course, they could prescribe something.  She needed to get the doctor's approval, and she would call it in as soon as possible.  Why was this not said when I brought up the question of pain management in the office?

Putting my phone down, I was relieved just at the thought of soon having something that might take the edge off of the throbbing pain.  By four in the afternoon, I took the first of what would be three Tramadol (one every 6 hours) to get me through the evening and overnight.  What I didn't know was how everything would change the next day.

Twenty-four hours after surgery, I was allowed to take off the large bandage that had been placed over my nose and across part of my cheek - this was a larger, tighter bandage than the funny temporary one I showed in the last post.

Once I finally got all the tape pulled from my skin, and the bandage removed, the relief was immediate.  What was throbbing seconds before, quickly throttled down to just soreness. 

With the bandage off, the swelling was impressive, but nothing I didn't expect.  I started to bruise on my right cheekbone, but it went away by the weekend.  I was told to expect bruising and that it would be at its worst on days 3 and 4.  It was also suggested I drink pure pineapple juice to help with bruising.  Greg searched unsuccessfully for that, until I decided some canned pineapple in juice would probably work just as well.  It's bromelain, an enzyme in pineapples, that is believed to help with post surgical bruising.  I have no idea if eating canned pineapple and drinking the liquid is what kept my bruising to a minimum, but it was a delicious experiment.

The surgeon used dissolvable stitches to close the inside wound, and to secure the flap and stitch up the side of my nose.  Over the last few days, I've watched most of those stitches fall out or just disappear.  With the original bandage off, the next few days had minimal discomfort - increasing at night, or after a busy day. Tylenol and ibuprofen at bedtime on a few of those nights was all I needed to ease that discomfort.  And I haven't taken anything at all most of this week.

Mostly, since the first day, it has gone from a bit sore, to tingly, creepy crawly - like a spider was crawling across the tip of my nose.  I am happy to report even that the creepy crawly sensation has mostly stopped, and I am interpreting that as the nerves healing. There's a tiny bit of numbness on the tip and bottom side of my nose, but I'm expecting that to disappear soon. 

If I had not had the first awful, painful day - the afternoon of the surgery - I would call recovery from this a cake walk.  Except for that first day, this was a much easier recovery than when my dermatologist removed basal and squamous cell cancers from the same place on my nose.  While I didn't have as much swelling, the derm left an open wound, and that took about three weeks to heal to the point I could stop wearing a bandaid.  It was messy and worrisome all of that time.

Yesterday I got down to wearing one small-ish bandaid on the nose, and one smaller bandaid at the top of my nose where my glasses sit on top of a stitch that feels like it's still in there.  

I know from past surgical experience that internal swelling can take longer than we think it should to resolve.  I called today to ask when I'd know when the site was healed enough to do massage on it, and use silicone strips to reduce scarring (if I decide I want to).  I knew it was too early, but was surprised they told me to wait a month.  So I'm just going to be patient as I wait for it all to finish healing up inside, trusting that what I saw right after surgery, before any swelling began, is likely what I'll be left with eventually.  Like nothing had ever happened.


Next in series...  things I've learned

17 comments:

  1. Your descriptions are so good. I am not squeamish, so, reading all your accounts are a great education for me. Sounds like things are progressing well for you. When I had surgery, my anesthesiologist advised me to take extra doses of vitamin C to help with bruising and swelling. I like the pineapple way better. Lots of vitamin C in those babies too!

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    1. I didn't know that about Vitamin C, Marsha, but I take a daily Vit C among other supplements I take for osteoporosis. Maybe that helped me too!

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  2. Glad things are going so well, Becki. God bless.

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  3. I'm glad after the first day the healing process was straight forward Becki. I hope there's no more surprises for you going forward, you've had more than enough of your fair share. Sending hugs to you. 🤗 Xx

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    1. Thanks, Linda. I'd love to take a break from all things medical. I'm holding my breath that my DEXA scan next month shows my bones at least holding steady. I feel like last year I traded a fairly care-free (health-wise) life for one that is at least a part-time job. It is not fun.

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  4. Becki, I have learned to asked for all the medication if they offer, because one never knows.

    The bandage pain is not all that surprising to me; I have had similar incidents just when I have applied one myself. Glad to hear the healing went/is going well.

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    1. TB, I would definitely accept anything offered, and hope I didn't need it. The problem I encounter is doctors don't want to prescribe narcotics - even a short course, I guess until a patient calls crying. It's demoralizing and makes me angry - not emotions that are conducive to getting rest and start healing.

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    2. Very different from my wisdom tooth extraction. I almost said "no", but they insisted.

      On the one hand I get the concern; on the other - given your recent surgery and circumstances - it seems a bit ridiculous.

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  5. I’m getting so mad about that dermatologist’s incompetence. This surgery healing seems to be going smoothly and I hope that continues. Liz (Highlandheffalump)

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    1. I don't know why I hesitate to consider her incompetent. I actually like her personality, but there were some things (mostly communication issues in the office) over the last two years that made me think I would be changing derms when my insurance changed. That happened in April, but I didn't switch right away, and before I knew it, I needed to see a dermatologist. If she'd just given me a mohs referral right from the start... Seeing a new dermatologist is on my list of things to accomplish in early 2025.

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  6. Prayers healing continues well
    It makes no sense to tell a patient call if pain is bad when they know it will be. I think doctors are, however, cautious about pain medication with good reason.

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    1. I know, May. Those instructions just didn't make any sense at all. I am cautious, too, about narcotics (and didn't take any beyond the first twelve hours of starting them.) I just wish doctors would say outright that they're willing to call in a prescription if needed. THAT small thing would be an improvement over what I have experienced in recent years.

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  7. Sweet Friend, I pray for your recovery to be quick and as painless as possible! I had Mohs Surgery on my cheek a few years ago. I remember my husband and best friend waiting in the car for me as it was Covid time. We all thought that I would come out with a bandaid on! I had a dressing just like yours! We went to eat and I got a hamburger, not realizing I wouln't be able to open my mouth! It healed up nicely, although the doctor did remind me about massaging it. Hugs!

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    1. I love hearing success stories about mohs, Billie Jo. We stopped for something to eat on our way home, and just that movement of my face started the pain up. It didn't occur to me either until that first bite. Ow ow ow

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  8. I've never heard of pineapple juice for reducing bruising but good to know. Certainly can't hurt. I'm sorry you had to go through so much pain but, hindsight being what it is, it's good it didn't last for days. When I had the surgery on my tongue I was given a prescription for pain meds before I left his office and he told me to fill it at the closest pharmacy and not wait the two hour drive to get home to ours. All the same, I only took it for one day and then went to extra-strength Advil. Continued thoughts for a good healing process Becki.

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  9. Life is so full right now . . . attempting a little catch up this evening . . .

    SO good to read that your Mohs surgery was successful! I am so sorry that you had such pain on the first day, and that you were ill-prepared for it. (Heavens, you can't be the first person who has experienced that, so why the lack of warning or tools to deal with it?) But wonderful that it eased rather quickly after the dressing was removed.

    Again, I thank you for sharing your experience in a detailed and straightforward manner!

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