As is to be expected, this YOP (Year of Projects) post, is going to be about creative, crafty things. And a Christmas luncheon. For me, nothing is much better than being able to combine some creativity with spending time with others.
With the Christmas season upon us, I was inspired this year to host a table at our church's Women's Christmas Luncheon (which was yesterday).
Attendance from our own church ladies was down this year for some reason, so I ended up being able to host a table full of friends (and one friend of a friend). That isn't how I imagined this being, but looking at the lovely (and loved) faces around my table, I thought it was surely extra fun the way it turned out. I knew these gals would appreciate anything I came up with - even if I completely flubbed on making a nice table setting. Not that I was very worried about that, but these things do cross one's mind...
My inspiration for creating a Christmas table was a set of dishes I brought home from my mother-in-law's when she passed in 2020 that were the same design of dishes I grew up with.
The dinner plate of this Currier & Ives set is a winter scene of "The Old Grist Mill". Perfect for a winter brunch to kick off the holidays. While it was probably not obvious to anyone else, my theme became "Vintage".
The gals organizing the event decided to make some changes from previous years - the first being to rent round tables (for which the church has evidently purchased a bunch of plain white table cloths). I had already given thought to decorating a long table, so wrapping my head around creating a centerpiece that needed to look nice from multiple angles around a round table, I'm sure made me expend a few brain cells I didn't anticipate.
Also, I wasn't interested in using a plain white cloth, and I didn't want to buy a round table cloth just for this purpose. So I came up with the very simple idea to just purchase cotton fabric and make a square "topper" out of it - thinking I could use the fabric for any number of things later. Learning how large the tables were, that simple idea morphed into buying enough fabric to stitch two widths together into a square that I could drape over the white table cloth. The selvages of the fabric were nicely frayed which made a great way to finish it off all the way around. In other words... it required no hemming.
I did decide to make (and hem) some fabric napkins, though.
Using this tutorial:
I became proficient at another way of making mitered corners.
An interesting video playing in the background made this tedious task more tolerable...
One job done
At some point in this whole process, I also came up with what I hoped would be a fun gift that my guests could use, and ideally was something handmade (just because I liked the idea of that).
Hand-knit dishcloths came quickly to mind, and when I found these holiday soft soaps, I thought the combination would be a respectable little gift.
So each lady got a slightly different version of the same thing. A cute jelly roll of dishcloths and some soap - that well... most anyone can use!
I also made simple napkin rings using a wired ribbon, topped with these cute little holly thingamabobs (found at Hobby Lobby). All hot glued together.
And finally, using things I already had, I made a centerpiece. The hardest part of this, was estimating how big of a centerpiece to make. We were told the tables were 5 feet across, and using my 5-foot-long rectangular dining room table as a guide, I eventually came up with a vignette - that probably was a bit large for the round table - but I think it was okay.
But backing up for just a moment... When I first started pulling a centerpiece together, I made a sort of wreath out of fake garland I've decorated with for years. Then placed a vintage glass Tom's Toasted Peanut jar in the middle filled with red and gold glass balls. We have two of these vintage jars, and one of them has held cookie cutters for years. Oooh... Suddenly the idea of using old metal Christmas themed cookie cutters tied to the wreath occurred to me!
It worked, but something about the whole thing felt, I don't know.... unwieldy, maybe, to me. It was only after I packed it all up for taking to the church the next day that I came across a large woven tray that I had bought at a friend's garage sale a couple of years ago. It was the solution I didn't know I needed! The tray made all the difference. Before this, I didn't fully appreciate the power of a container of some sort to build a centerpiece on.
Instead of forming a wreath, the garland was placed in something of a free-flowing design around and overflowing one of the edges of the tray. Then, as if it had happened organically, I just "spilled" some more red and gold balls into the middle of the tray to fill it in. The extra napkin in the middle (below) came out the next day, but for some reason, the night before I thought it looked cute in there. The next morning I thought it just looked kind of confusing.
I don't know if the small cross stitch pillows were too much - in fact, it was my intention the next morning to pull them out too, but I forgot. They ended up being a conversation piece, so I think my table mates liked them.
All in all, I was pleased with how everything turned out. Our meal was catered by Johnny Carino's, and while it could have been warmer (at least mine, by the time I ate it) it was delicious. I'd love to recreate the Lemon Rosemary Chicken they served us.
The time passed quickly - singing carols, hearing the story behind all the elements of the Twelve Days of Christmas, then visiting over our meal. It was a lovely way to kick off the season. For me, having this behind me, I now feel like the rest of the season should provide plenty of time to focus more thoughtfully on the birth of Jesus, and the gift of salvation and grace He offers us.
I hope this Christmas season is meaningful for us all.





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Well, this is all delightful. I am sure the ladies all liked it and the warm fellowship at your table.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sandy. I think they did. And, for me, it was a great way to kick off the season. And it's so nice to relax a bit now.
DeleteOh my! I love how you pulled all of this together so nicely, and made a very interesting and fun table to sit at with a group of ladies who I am sure appreciated every bit of it. The Currier and Ives dishes are what I have and I love them too...they are good winter dishes and you tied it all together perfectly! It would have been so lovely to sit at your table with you!! Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteHow fun that you have the same dishes, Pam. I was so tickled when I found these dishes in a box in the basement of my MIL's house when we were cleaning it out. None of the siblings seemed to realize she even had them, and none of them wanted the dishes, so I gladly brought them home with me. :)
DeleteHow interesting. So every table is different with the host responsible for the decorations and tableware? I've never attended a lunch like that. Glad it was such a success. Sounds wonderful.
ReplyDeleteYes, that is how it works, Maureen. And if that sounds like a lot of work, it is... but I found out (when setting everything up on Friday evening) that years ago hostesses used to also cook and bring the entire meal for their table. I'm sure the gals who participated had fun doing it, but that is crazy-sounding to me.
DeleteIt is a great idea to have different people create a table for an event. (Much harder to decorate a whole room cohesively!) Your table is lovely . . . and you went the extra mile with all of your creative touches!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words, Cheryl. It really is a fun idea for this sort of thing. It also gets a lot more people involved in making the thing happen. And now that I've got this pulled together, I have a centerpiece for our family Christmas table! :D
DeleteWow, what a great idea Becki! It all looks great. I am sure the effort was appreciated.
ReplyDeleteThank you, TB. My friends were generously appreciative. :)
DeleteI made napkins recently, and couldn’t remember how to make mitred corners. My grandmother showed me when I was young. Thanks for the link! It’s looking very festive at your place!
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome, Alissa. I was surprised at how odd and yet simple making mitered corners this way is! I made a couple of mistakes before I got it right, but once I did, it was so easy.
DeleteI'm sure the ladies appreciated all your effort to come up with such a pretty table setting. I'm assuming that there's a different person in charge of decorating each table which must have made the event even more fun.
ReplyDeleteYour assumption is correct, Mary Anne. Maybe I'll make another post just showing all the other tables (I was afraid adding them here would make this already long post, ridiculously long). To me... this aspect is what makes this event worth the effort.
DeleteBecki, you out did yourself once again. You put so much thought and meaning behind this table setting. You are truly blessed with a creative mind. May this season of joy and promise bring you and yours many blessings..
ReplyDeleteAww... Thank you, Marsha. I hope you have a blessed Christmas.
DeleteLook at you! That reminds me of our long ago Christmases. <3
ReplyDeleteI was hoping you'd see this post, Sherri! :D
DeleteWhat a stunning table! How lucky those ladies were to get to sit at your table. Your are a very talented writer also - the story was delightful about pulling in all theelements and your thought processes. Very enjoyable post to read.
ReplyDeleteOh Ruth, that is so kind of you. Thank you for such a lovely comment.
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