Sunday, October 18, 2026

Doily gifting...

It's hard to believe I've not been in here in a month's time (again), but it is a fact.  And it's not like there's not been anything to blog about.  But one of my favorite blogging topics is my Year of Project updates, and while I've been making things, most of what I'm working on are gifts, and until they are given I'm not posting about them.

That said, I've finally given two people doilies I've had finished for a while, but was waiting until they had actually been gifted.

Yesterday Greg and I enjoyed a beautiful day driving to Kentucky and visiting my sister and niece and her husband in Louisville.  We got lost in some very old parts of this city because we didn't trust GPS for some reason, and while that delayed our arrival by about an hour, we saw some gorgeous old neighborhoods of Louisville.  I became confused, though because in our drive through the city, we would find ourselves in yet another "downtown area" but clearly not in the heart of the downtown Louisville.  One of these small town-looking "downtowns", was strikingly similar to Fountain Square in Indianapolis.  If you know, you know.  

The confusion finally evaporated when my nephew-in-law explained that Louisville actually includes a lot of small towns.  Then it clicked.  Indianapolis is the same.  If you're from Louisville, and I get this wrong, correct me, but I understand from reading online, it is called Louisville Metro.  We live a little ways from the Indianapolis Metroplex - which we frequent often for doctors' appointments and shopping.  Understanding Louisville in this way, suddenly all the little downtowns made sense.  And all the important-looking signs designating a village or neighborhood were, I realized, very similar to the signs we see when we drive around, in and out of these little towns, as we make our way to various destinations within the Indianapolis Metroplex.

While we were feeling stressed to have gotten ourselves so far off the trail, I am glad to have seen such a variety of neighborhoods.  And later, when driving to our niece's home (on the far east side of Louisville), we enjoyed beautiful forested areas.  Louisville seems to have it all!  

After lunch doilies were finally gifted and the recipients appeared to be delighted with them.  To my relief, it was a success.  While I love crocheting, when making gifts (and even more so when I've been paid to make something), I find it stressful wondering if the recipient is actually going to like the thing I'm making.  There is so much second-guessing and some figurative hand-wringing...    I truly don't know how makers who rely on their various talents to earn a living cope with this stress.  

I'm going to take a number of posts to show the recent doilies I've made - just so I can keep some blog fodder in the file, which may help me not disappear for another month.

Today, I present a new-to-me doily pattern called Rosaline:


This is my second textured Grace Fearon doily.  I feel kind of good about the fact that she classifies this as an "Advanced" doily. I finished this a few weeks ago, so maybe I'm forgetting, but it didn't strike me as all that difficult.  The crisscross cables (I think one can all them) made me a little nervous when I started that round, but I just trusted the instructions, and my recollection is that it worked fine.  I think I would not mind making another one of these someday.

And that's all for this YOP post!  To see what other YOPpers are up to, visit our group on Ravelry by clicking the image below.  One will need a free Ravelry membership to visit our group page, just so you know.

My heart goes out to those who suffered damage and loss to Hurricane Isaias.  We've finally shed ourselves of its rainy remnants and are looking to have a couple of weeks in the 70's before the late fall chills chase us inside.  What a gift that feels like!



16 comments:

  1. Beautiful dollies. Glad you enjoyed Louisville. We drive through it often when we go to visit my stepdaughter and her family in Evansville. We have yet to go site seeing in Louisville. MaureenHD

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    1. Maureen, we've only driven through Louisville on 65 when we were headed somewhere more southerly. And honestly heading south wasn't our usual direction when we traveled as a family. Year's ago, I attended my niece's wedding and reception near/in the downtown area, but other than that we'd only really experienced Louisville from the interstate. I had no idea how beautiful are many areas in and around Louisville.

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  2. Hello! I am happy to see you here! You are so very talented. I always enjoy when you share your projects. I hope you are having a cozy autumn, my friend.

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    1. It's barely been autumn here, Billie Jo. Much of September and early October was hot, hot, hot! I thought I was ready for cool weather, but when the remnants of Isaias made it here, I wasn't ready for the chill down! Glad it's going to warm up a bit again, and that we'll have a couple of weeks in the 70's just to ease into autumn. But normally, I'm a "bring on autumn, already" sort of gal. :)

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  3. It's a beautiful doily! I struggle with anxious thoughts as well 🫂

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  4. So beautiful Becky! I haven't done a thread project or doily in awhile. You are inspiring me to pull them out again. What a lovely gift for a friend, and a unintentional adventure through Louisville Metro area!
    I understand your comments about anxious thoughts around crafty giving and sales. I have stopped both because my relaxing, de-stress hobby had become the opposite too often. But, I will give away my projects when someone asks about them and is interested - which brings me joy instead of anxiety. That is the happy medium I have found.
    Looking forward to seeing more of your crafty gifts in the coming weeks/months.

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    1. It is so good to hear from you, Christi! I'm glad you relate to my comments about making things for others as stressful. Knowing I need cataract surgery soon, and not having any idea how much I'll enjoy making these doilies with fine thread afterwards, I'm on a quest to make some very intentionally right now.

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  5. Oops not sure if my post published as phone crashed. I was saying how lovely and intricate the doily is, beautiful. Liz

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  6. Rosaline is gorgeous! Your skills are amazing. I think people who do this as part of their livelihood have learned to make items pleasing to them and pray someone else will love it as well. I find with doilies, color doesn't usually matter to the recipient. Size is usually the main concern. I learned this from making shawls and Afghans for gifts for years. I make what pleases my eye. No one has ever been disappointed with their gift.

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    1. This is good advice, Marsha. This time, I asked the recipients what colors they would like, and while that part hasn't been stressful, finding doily patterns that fit the sizes requested has been harder than I imagined. It doesn't help that my crocheting with thread is tight and everything turns out smaller than the designer states the doily should finish.

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  7. Oh your latest doily is beautiful and it looks advanced even if you did not find it so!

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  8. Yet another beautiful doily creation Becki - well done! I wish I could still crochet with fine cotton but my hands balk so I will just have to enjoy using the ones my Grandmother made many (many!) years ago.

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    1. I've been enjoying giving more doilies away, Mary Anne, but I'm thinking when I'm done making these gifts I need to make me a few more. Except for my little doilies, I've depleted my personal doily stock. I kind of want there to be some here that someone finds after I'm gone. :)

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