Tuesday, November 10, 2020

Making Space - week 2




Well, here I am at week two of this challenge!  So far, so good!  

Knowing we were having a last blast of heat before the pre-winter chill down, last week I decided it was time to go through my clothes closet.  The thought that I might do some serious purging was foremost in my mind.

I know there are those who advocate for taking everything out of the closet at the same time so that one can see everything, know what's in there, and I guess more easily decide what isn't needed.  The thought of doing a closet sort that way has always felt overwhelming to me.  Nevermind that we'd need the bed for sleeping before I'd likely manage culling through everything.  So I decided to do the sort by categories. And each category on separate days.  Frankly, my closet is already sorted by categories, so at least that part was already done and the culling through each category maybe took an hour or so each.   

So, my suggestion (if you're like me and don't think it would be wise to pull everything out at the same time) is to sort things inside your closet by category first. And, frankly, keep the closet that way.  That part isn't hard, in my opinion.

My ultimate goal with this task was to only have in my closet items I wear.   So with that in mind, I broke the categories down as follows:

1st - tops
2nd - bottoms
3rd - shoes

And, again...  I did each of these categories on separate days - just because that's how it was going to work for me.  And I think that was a very good idea.

Here were my steps:

First, after everything in one category was out of the closet (and on the bed), I removed any items that I could tell at a glance I no longer wanted taking up space in my closet (or home).  These were items I either I knew are uncomfortable, or weren't my color, or for some reason I always passed up for something else.

Second, assuming everything left passed the test of being something I knew I liked to wear, I tried everything on.  If it fit and felt comfortable, it went back into the closet, if it didn't fit I made the decision to either donate it, or box it up for the possibility of losing some weight and wearing it someday in the future.  I was both happy and a bit embarrassed that the vast majority of items fit and went right back into the closet.  The good news is, at least for the duration of our socially distanced existence, I have plenty of clothes to wear.  The bad news is I still have a closet full of clothes...

Anyway, the routine was pretty much the same for the tops and the bottoms.

And then it came time to sort through my shoes.  Now, seriously...  I don't think I really have a shoe problem, but the pile of shoes I came up with to rehome challenges that notion:



For the sake of camaraderie and maybe having something to say to help another declutterer, I thought I'd make some confessions.  There are two pairs of shoes here that are brand new and didn't get worn partly because they aren't comfortable.  And several other shoes I bought because they were kind of cute, but even though I gave them a go, they ended up being uncomfortable to wear too. The others... I got a good run out of them.    

I told myself (yet again), Stop doing this!  Stop buying shoes that I know are going to be uncomfortable!  For me, this is mainly shoes with no arch support, and too narrow of a toe box.  

And then, for the sake of moving towards this being a productive exercise instead of a self-defeating one, I decided to focus on the idea that somewhere out there are some women (probably with younger feet than mine) who will love those new shoes I'm no longer going to torture myself with, or berate myself over.  

Figuring that most of us have thrift stores and such that we know gladly receive our cast offs, I thought it might be interesting, even helpful to others decluttering, to give mention to places I become aware of that may not be widely known about.  In this case, Hubs recently found out about a local organization called Changing Footprints that collects shoes to be distributed to agencies that serve a variety of people in need.  In addition to giving good shoes new homes, they will also accept old, worn shoes and these they ship to Nike who recycles the components of the shoes - to minimize what may end up in a landfill.  Hubs found out about this local-to-us organization at the physical therapy place he went to this summer after his knee surgery.  So keep your eyes and ears open, folks - you never know what you'll notice as you go about your activities.

While today's post isn't a big haul in terms of clothing pieces, it sure feels good to lighten my home of other things from my closet, like hangers, shoes, a couple of purses.  All in all (counting a pair of shoes as one item), a few items of clothing, a couple of purses, and counting the hangers individually...  today's count is:  38 items.  Added to the running total:


Making Space:  53 items gone


If you'd like to join in a low-key decluttering activity that fits with the pace of life, see my post my post explaining this Making Space endeavor.  Check out the bottom of same link for graphics you can feel free to use.

18 comments:

  1. I find shoes hard to part with if I like them, thinking that one day they will magically be comfortable. Hm. No. But I've freecycled shoes to very happy people they fit, almost new, and they are well received. So there's that.

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    1. When I find a comfortable pair of shoes, I sometimes buy a second pair as I've learned that by the time the first pair have significant enough wear to replace, the comfortable shoe I've found isn't being made anymore. Boggles the mind!

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  2. I couldn't part with any of my shoes because I have a very limited amount. 1 pair of dress shoes, 1 pair of walking shoe/sneakers; 1 pair of winter boots; 1 pair of mid-season unlined 'boots'; and a pair of Birkenstocks I use for slippers. Oh, and a pair of knitted/felted slippers. Done deal. I've never been a person that has more than the bare minimum when it comes to shoes. My clothes pretty much got culled in the last clear out but maybe I'll be able to find some more.

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    1. I'm down to just about the bare minimum for me (except that I did buy some extra walking shoes recently because frankly, I'm not confident they'll be easy to get when I need them. Oh, and I'm hanging onto a pair of dress sandals that feel pretty superfluous at the moment. They are unworn because I bought them at the end of last season, and this summer I had no where to wear them. I'm hanging onto them in hope of a better summer next!

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  3. I did the shoe purge last summer. I couldn't believe how many shoes I wasn't wearing anymore. I wished I had some of my money back for all of them. Oh yes, been down this road:)

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    1. Oh, I agree. I wish I had the money back I spent on them. The only thing that redeems the whole business is hoping another woman (and better, a woman who perhaps wouldn't have so easily afforded them) can use and enjoy what I cannot. I don't think the shoes I didn't wear are inherently uncomfortable, they are just uncomfortable for my poor feet.

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  4. Nothing feels better than parting with uncomfortable shoes no matter how cute. Still, I'm holding onto a pair of leather boots because I paid a lot of money for them. 🥴

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    1. So true! I think I hang onto shoes I'm not wearing longer than I should mainly because they cost so much. Which just make me feel guiltier every time I'm reminded I have them and am not wearing them. What a trap it is.

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  5. Shoes are always a problem for me I buy and then never wear, I'm a trainer girl because they are so comfortable but I buy the shoes just in case there's an occasion when I will wear them and I never do. We get charity bags pushed through the door every week and I'm pleased to report I filled one with CDs shoes, boots, books and a few items of clothing but I forgot to take a photo, next time I will remember.

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  6. I like the idea of a running total like you did in this post. I will add that to my next decluttering post. I did finally post my first decluttering post this week, but quickly followed it up with a post on Halloween and my grand daughter so I think that first post on decluttering was overlooked. That with the fact I missed the first week entirely is a rather stumbling start. Haha. No matter.

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    1. So glad you let me know, Elaine. Heading over to your blog to see your post - I did indeed miss it.

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  7. WooHoo!!!! You're amazing! Look at that pile and 53 items? You get the prize!

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    1. :) The prize will be eventually having a house with less stuff to keep track of. :)

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  8. Becki, you have more shoes than I do...I have 2 pairs of boots, rain and snow; 1 pair of hiking books, 1 pair of flip flops, one pair of suede boots (that rarely get worn) and tons of slippers lol...we need to do our closets today actually. We've been shoving things where they can fit since we moved in and it's time to organize!

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    1. :) I hope your organizing is going well, Rain!

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  9. Your suede flats look cute. I used to have lots of pairs of flats. My feet got longer by half a size so I got rid of them all.

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    1. They are cute. I just can't wear true flats anymore (even though these had a bit of a cushion). I've seen some with a slight wedge that I might try. The gray loafers above have a slight wedge and I found them really comfy even though I don't remember them having any arch. The (probably faux) leather finish on them started to seriously break down - otherwise they were my favorite no-sock "jeans" shoes for a couple of years. :/

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